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Sterling Ray's avatar

I am chronically ill and mostly housebound. Letters and Christmas cards are one of my favorite ways to feel connected to all the people I don’t get to see. I tend to make a long list of people I want to send to and start early. I get all my cards from the thrift store throughout the year when I’m able to go out, so they’re all different and it’s inexpensive. I just write a simple message for each person/family. No photo or anything fancy. It’s old fashioned and makes me so happy. I feel festive and get a chance to think of all the people I care about. I spend some of October and November writing my cards and send them out sometime in December.

Some people tell me they are stressed about cards when they see that I hand write notes in all of mine- and I tell them the same thing- let it go! You don’t have to do it! This is something that brings life and connection to me. A way to show love within my limitations. It’s not the same for everyone :)

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Dixie Dillon Lane's avatar

I love the idea of identifying your Christmas essentials!

I find that Christmas cards work best if we order them early and address them over time. I order them when a good coupon comes out, order stamps or pick some up at the post office, and then print out a list of addresses. Then I keep it all together in a box that is left out for a couple of weeks, and anyone who wants some quiet time doing something festive can address a few, crossing the addresses off the list. It's kind of fun. The younger kids enjoy putting on the stamps and using the return address stamp.

That said, last year we didn't do 'em -- just no room in the budget. And that was fine, too.

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